Intellectuals and Sexual Abuse
Advocates of adults’ ‘right’ to sexual relations with ‘consenting’ children
A further contribution to existential seduction theory
Anthony Stadlen
conducts by Zoom
Inner Circle Seminar No. 283
Sunday 18 June 2023
10 a.m. to 5 p.m.
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Louis Althusser |
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Louis Aragon |
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Roland Barthes |
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Simone de Beauvoir |
Patrice Chéreau |
David Cooper |
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Gilles Deleuze |
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Jacques Derrida |
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Françoise Dolto |
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Michel Foucault |
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Félix Guattari |
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Michel Leiris |
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Jean-Franҫois Lyotard |
Jean-Paul Sartre
In 1977, leading French philosophers and writers, including Louis Althusser, Louis Aragon, Roland Barthes, Simone de Beauvoir, Gilles Deleuze, Jacques Derrida, Michel Foucault, Félix Guattari, Michel Leiris, Jean-Franҫois Lyotard, Francis Ponge, Alain Robbe-Grillet, Jean-Paul Sartre, the opera and film director Patrice Chéreau, and a number of eminent doctors, psychiatrists, and psychologists, including the child psychoanalyst Françoise Dolto, petitioned the French Parliament to assert the ‘right’ of adults to engage in sexual relations with ‘consenting’ children and the ‘right’ of children to ‘consent’.
In a dialogue with Guy Hocquenghem and Jean Danet broadcast by France Culture on 4 April 1978, later translated and published in Michel Foucault: politics, philosophy, culture: interviews and other writings (ed. Lawrence D. Kritzman, 1988), Michel Foucault said:
‘...to assume that a child is incapable of explaining what happened and was incapable of giving his consent are two abuses that are intolerable, quite unacceptable.’
This phenomenon was not restricted to France. In the UK, Foucault’s friend Dr David Cooper, psychiatrist and founder of ‘anti-psychiatry’, had written in his book The Grammar of Living (1974, p. 50):
‘Initiation of young children into orgasmic experiences, in spontaneous body-exploration and play within their peer-group, will become, I believe, part of a full education towards the end of this century.’
And (p. 149):
‘Small children, as has been clearly demonstrated, can have orgasm too and the sooner initiation is achieved the better [...]’
‘Childhood sexual experiences, willingly engaged in with an adult, result in no identifiable damage.’
Hence, argued NCCL, it was ‘logical’ that the age of consent be abolished; but, as this was ‘not politically possible’, it should be lowered to fourteen – or to ten
‘provided it is demonstrated that consent was clearly given by the child’.
‘The Campaign for Homosexual Equality at a conference in Nottingham yesterday passed by an overwhelming majority a resolution condemning “the harrassment [sic] of the Paedophile Information Exchange by the press”. [...] The conference gave a standing ovation to Dr Edward Brongersma, a member of the Upper House of the Dutch Parliament, who led the discussion on paedophilia.’
‘...almost all children are far more capable of anal and vaginal intercourse than they are given credit for.’
‘had a sinking feeling that in another five years or so, their [PIE’s] aims would eventually be incorporated into the general liberal credo, and we would all find them acceptable.’
‘I still have this sinking sensation that after a lot more airing of the paedophiles’ views, our most violent prejudices will eventually be broken down.’
‘[...] a precocious experience of sexual relations with actual excitement of the genitals, resulting from sexual abuse [‘Mißbrauch’] committed by another person in the years up to the age of eight to ten, before the child has reached sexual maturity [...] is the specific aetiology of hysteria.’
‘a momentous finding, the discovery of a caput Nili [source of the Nile] in neuropathology’.
‘[Karl] Abraham pronounced the last word on the question of the traumatic aetiology when he pointed out how precisely the peculiarity of the sexual constitution of the child knows how to provoke sexual events of a particular kind, thus traumas.’
It should be emphasised, however, that – despite Freud’s questionably uncritical attitude to the adolescent Dora’s sexual molestation by her father’s friend Herr K. (he actually calls her ‘a child of fourteen’, and Stadlen’s research shows that she was almost certainly only thirteen, below the Austrian age of consent at the time) – he was quite clear that sexual relationships of adults with prepubertal children were indeed sexual abuse and should be treated as criminal.
Moreover, Freud never claimed that all the patients he had taken to be sexually abused in childhood had merely been fantasising. But innumerable twentieth-century writers, for example Freud’s authorised biographer Ernest Jones (1953), asserted that this was precisely what Freud’s great ‘discovery’ had been. Jones eulogised and romanticised the year 1897, when Freud, in a private letter on 21 September 1897 to his friend Wilhelm Fließ, retracted the ‘seduction theory’ and ‘discovered’ childhood oedipal phantasy on which adults’ supposedly fantasied memories of supposed childhood sexual seduction were supposedly based. ‘1897,’ wrote Jones, ‘was the acme of Freud’s life.’
It became even more difficult for those who had been sexually abused as children not to be disbelieved, by psychoanalysts and by everybody else.
A further crucial mystification throughout this history from the beginning has been the presumption of illness: ‘mental illness’. We have discussed this in many seminars. A report of childhood sexual abuse was itself taken as prima facie evidence of the supposed ‘mental illness’, ‘hy
It is important to realise that, two-thirds through the twentieth century, it was completely standard, both in specialised psychoanalytic writings and in more general or popular accounts, to repeat, without any apparent sense of unreality, unlikelihood, or lack of common sense, that all Freud’s patients told him they had been sexually abused but he found all were fantasising.
For example, The Encyclopedia of Psychoanalysis (1968), an authoritative work, edited by the psychoanalyst Ludwig Edinger with the assistance of other eminent psychoanalysts including Harold Blum, Edward Glover, Bertram Lewin, William Niederland, and Leonard Shengold, contains the following statements:
- (p. 156) ‘In his autobiographical study, Freud (1925) was to recall that he was at first convinced that the seduction of children actually took place and was responsible for their neuroses. Later, he discovered that these patients reported seductions which hadn’t taken place. Consequently his theory of seduction had to be abandoned. Finally, he realised that from the child’s point of view there was no difference between a real seduction and the wish to be seduced. He therefore introduced the concept of psychic reality which accounts for this apparent contradiction.’
- (p. 340) ‘At first Freud (1895) believed that what his patients reported as seductions in early childhood had actually occurred. Only later (in 1906) did he discover that they had never taken place and represented the child s wishes. This discovery at first confused him, until he realised that for a child a wish may be equal to an actual experience. Freud called this kind of infantile experience psychic reality.’
There are a couple of more nuanced brief allusions to the seduction theory episode in the Encyclopedia, but it is telling that the above two statements were approved.
Typical of countless other examples is the account, chosen at random, in Sigmund Freud: A Short Biography by Giovanni Costigan (1965, p. 43):
‘Gradually, he was led to doubt the actuality of these stories of seduction in early childhood, upon which his entire theory of hysteria had been founded, and in course of time he came to abandon his belief in them altogether.’
Three further examples may hint at the extent to which interpersonal reality became discounted by psychoanalysts following Freud’s retraction of his seduction theory and replacement of it by ‘psychic reality’:
- The Encyclopedia of Psychoanalysis (1968, p. 109) explains:‘The feeling of disgust [Dora] felt when Herr K.’s erect penis pressed against her body (at fourteen) probably meant that she resented the size of her own member. That is, it represented a defense against her consciousness of penis envy. This feeling of disgust persisted, and perhaps was responsible for her refusal to play a feminine role. In this, her father and Herr K. were her competitors. They had what she had not, a penis.’
- Melanie Klein’s concept of ‘projective identification’ is today often thought to describe an interpersonal situation. It is taken to mean that person P in phantasy ‘projects’ an unacceptable aspect of P, e.g. faeces F, into another person O, and O in phantasy identifies with F. This would be an important concept in its own right. But this is not how Klein originally defined it, in ‘Notes on some schizoid mechanisms’ (1946). Her concept was purely intrapsychic, and she never changed it. As she describes it, person P projects unacceptable psychic material, e.g. phantasied faeces (F), into the ‘inner object’ representing person O in person P’s own ‘psyche’ or ‘inner world’. And it is person P, not O, who identifies with F, but now as part of ‘inner object’ O, still within P. This was still how ‘projective identification’ was correctly defined, directly quoting Klein’s original, wholly intrapsychic account, in The Encyclopedia of Psychoanalysis (1968, pp. 332-3).
- John Bowlby, as a young psychoanalyst, wanted to study what happened between mothers and babies. He was told that this was not an activity worthy of an analyst, because since Freud had given up the seduction theory it was known that all that mattered was unconscious phantasy.
Intellectuals, and by no means only those who called for the ‘liberation’ of children’s sexuality and of adults’ right to exploit it, were often, like the psychoanalysts themselves, seduced by Freud’s and Jones’s seductive misrepresentation of the rise and fall of Freud’s seduction theory. Cioffi’s 1973 demystification of the episode went unnoticed.
Again and again, it was falsely repeated, even a century later, by otherwise intelligent people, not apparently in other respects out of touch with ordinary social reality, that all Freud’s ‘hysterical’ patients in the seduction theory period told him they had been sexually abused; that he had at first believed them all; but that he had then discovered that they were all merely fantasising.
For example, Dr John Casey, Life Fellow of Gonville and Caius College, Cambridge, wrote (Daily Telegraph, 7 December 1995), a few months before the centenary of Freud's announcement of his seduction theory:
‘[...] patients came to [Freud] describing all sorts of sexual assaults and seductions by their parents and other relatives [which he at first believed but] then decided that these stories were all fantasies’.
Sartre may serve as a paradigm case.
In the one hundred and twenty-seven years since Freud announced his seduction theory, there have been the wildest swings in the attitude of intellectuals, including psychoanalysts, psychotherapists, philosophers and others, to the sexual abuse of children. They saw it where it wasn’t and failed to see it where it was.
In 1984 Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson published The Assault on Truth: Freud’s Suppression of the Seduction Theory, which further muddied the waters by asserting that Freud’s seduction theory was simply right and his subsequent retraction simply wrong. Others confusedly claimed that Masson was simply right or simply wrong.
In 1987 Drs Marietta Higgs and Geoffrey Wyatt, paediatricians at Middlesborough Hospital, claimed that their method of investigating reflex anal dilation revealed child sexual abuse in a large number of children. 121 children in Cleveland were removed from their parents; 94 were subsequently returned. In 1988 the Butler-Sloss inquiry concluded that most of the diagnoses were incorrect.
In the same year, 1988, Ellen Bass and Laura Davis published The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, with its advice:
‘If you are unable to remember any specific instances but still have a feeling that something abusive happened to you, it probably did.’
When positions are adopted dogmatically in either direction, the authorities (for example, in the UK) on the one hand persecute innocent people falsely accused by a criminal child-abusing fantasist; while on the other hand they fail to prosecute a television celebrity because of his fame, or city grooming gangs because of their race. These extreme abdications of rationality and responsibility are rewarded routinely with elevation to the peerage.
There is clearly a dialectic between the psychoanalytic and the societal views on sexual relations between adults and children. It would be reductive to try to derive either view from the other, but it seems clear that the psychoanalytic view has played an important part in the development of the societal view.
The Inner Circle Seminars started with a seminar on Sunday 21 April 1996, the exact centenary of Freud’s announcement on 21 April 1896, to the Vienna Society of Psychiatry and Neurology, of both the ‘seduction theory’ and ‘psychoanalysis’. Seventeen months later on Sunday 21 September 1997 we marked with a seminar the exact centenary of his private retraction of the theory on 21 September 1897 in a letter to Fließ. We explored in subsequent seminars his subsequent development of the ‘oedipal’ theory of infantile sexuality and sexual phantasy.
(See http://anthonystadlen.blogspot.com/1996/.)
We examined in detail over a number of years how the obfuscation of this episode – by Freud, Jones, and others, including family therapists and feminists who claim to be critical of psychoanalysis – has led to a mystification of the discourse on the sexual abuse of children, embracing both contending dogmas, of ‘recovered’ and ‘false’ memories. We continue this exploration today.
The factual investigation of sexual abuse must be differentiated from the moral discourse. But it is impossible to discuss the ethics of sexual relations between adults and children intelligently if the supposed ‘facts’ are so confused and unreliable.
Moreover, the facts do demand an ethical understanding; and, when a child represses aspects of his or her abuse, it is often precisely the memory of being seduced into denial of the ethical aspect that is repressed. This was not discussed by Freud, nor is it by psychotherapists generally.
In this seminar we shall continue to develop existential seduction theory, as we have done from the first Inner Circle Seminar twenty-seven years ago.
This means giving due recognition to ethics. It also requires the dialectical-phenomenological study of the specific ways in which human beings use language to seduce one another: mystification, invalidation, double bind, etc., as researched by investigators such as Gregory Bateson, Don Jackson, R. D. Laing, and Aaron Esterson in the mid-twentieth century, but gravely neglected by existential therapists and Daseinsanalysts since then.
We will thus return to and continue our exploration (in Inner Circle Seminar No. 278 on Sunday 22 January 2023) of Martti Siirala’s critique of what he called the ‘violent elements in the absolutist claims for “Daseinsanalysis” to a direct access to the phenomena in an adequate, undistorted way’.
We shall ask how far these are due to Martin Heidegger’s distaste for dialectics; and whether they may be remedied, and existential seduction theory advanced, by developing concretely Heidegger’s early (1919), but never again mentioned, notion of Diahermeneutics.
In today’s seminar we will, then, be bringing together themes from a number of earlier Inner Circle Seminars; and it is certain that they will not be exhausted, either in this seminar or in the future seminars it will call for.
Your contribution to the discussion will be warmly welcomed.
This will be an online seminar, using Zoom.